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How I Fell Ass First into Sexual Wellness Coaching

I didn’t exactly wake up one morning and think, “You know what? I’m going to be a sexual wellness coach!” It wasn’t on my childhood dream board next to astronaut and professional ice cream taster. No, my journey here was more of a series of awkward moments, self-discoveries, and plenty of “Wait, this is normal?” epiphanies.

Let’s rewind a bit. Like most people, I grew up learning about sex and relationships in whispers, outdated textbooks, and the occasional awkward TV scene that made everyone in the room suddenly fascinated with their snack bowls. For years, I thought that was just the way it was: intimacy was mysterious, pleasure was taboo, and communication was… well, non-existent.

Fast forward to my adult years, and let’s just say I didn’t magically figure it all out. Relationships were messy. My own confidence wavered. I had questions—so many questions—and not a lot of people to ask without it feeling like I was confessing to a crime. Then, life took an unexpected turn.

It all started with my wife. She decided to give cam modeling a try, and, as a proud exhibitionist myself, I was immediately intrigued. Watching her embrace her confidence and sexuality in such a bold, unapologetic way was not only inspiring but downright contagious. Before I knew it, I was giving it a go myself. What started as a fun, slightly nerve-wracking experiment quickly turned into an eye-opening journey of self-discovery.

Through that lens (pun intended), I learned so much about my own desires, boundaries, and the power of owning your sexuality. More importantly, I realized just how much of this exploration was missing in so many people’s lives—not because they didn’t want it, but because no one had ever told them it was okay to want it.

Today, I help people of all backgrounds reclaim their confidence, rediscover their pleasure, and build the kind of relationships they deserve—without judgment, shame, or weird euphemisms (okay, maybe just a few for fun). I’m here to remind you that you’re not broken, you’re not alone, and your sex life isn’t something to survive—it’s something to celebrate.